5 Signs You Need Some Help With Your Wedding Planning
Planning your wedding should be fun and enjoyable. But sometimes, for many reasons, it can become too much for you. As with all things in life, recognising that you need some help is vital and then the next big step is asking for that help. So how do you know that it’s time to get some help with your wedding planning?
Your To Do List Seems To Be Breeding
Now I love a to do list but when your to do list takes on a life of it’s own it’s not going to help you at all. A really long, messy list will just overwhelm you and you end up not doing anything from the list.
You need to break down the list into some sort of priority and also chunk it down into weeks or months. Then you can just focus on a section of the list at once and you’ll feel much better when you can start crossing things off.
Alternatively you can throw it in my direction and I’ll sort it for you and then help you to keep on top of it.
You Can’t Make Decisions
Some people are naturally indecisive but when you’re planning your wedding you have a lot of decisions to make. Right from the outset when you’re choosing a venue and setting a budget right through to the smaller details like what drinks to serve your guests and when.
If you’ve reached the point where you just can’t decide on anything then maybe you need some help. I obviously can’t make the decisions for you but I can help you weigh things up and make it clearer for you to decide.
Your Suppliers Are Stalking You For Updates And Payments
It can easy to lose track of how much you owe to each supplier and when payments are due. But if your suppliers are having to harass you make your next payment or to confirm the details of your order with them this isn’t good for either of you.
You don’t need the extra pressure of them chasing you up and they don’t need the uncertainty of wondering if your booking is going to go ahead (especially after the pressures the last 18 months have brought to the wedding industry)
So if you’re in this position, I can create you a clear list of outstanding decisions that you need to make for your suppliers. And I can put together a payment plan so you can see at a glance how much you owe each supplier and when you need to pay them.
You’re Not Sleeping
If your anxiety about the wedding planning is keeping you awake at night, then it’s definitely time to think about getting some help. Losing sleep is never a good thing and it will then start to impact on your job and your relationships.
Planning your wedding should be enjoyable so please think seriously about what help you need and how you can change things if this is happening to you.
You’ve Lost Your Excitement For Your Big Day
I’m seeing this a lot right now with couples who have had to move their wedding day, often more than once. I know how upsetting it is and the uncertainty doesn’t help at all.
When you’re in this scenario, it can be easy to lose your excitement and your drive to get things done. So maybe you need someone on your side to be your cheerleader, take on some of the admin for you and help you to look forward to your big day again.
Partial Wedding Planning is the perfect solution for you if you’ve done some elements of your wedding but need some help to get things finished. Get in touch if you think this could be the answer for you or you need some other level of support and let’s have a chat about how I can help you.